Nightlife Tips: What Women Want

by Lauren Khalaf
05.16.2011


A woman walks into a bar and instantaneously catches your eye. You’re wondering how to approach her and how to get her attention. We’ve got the tricks to help you reel her in.
First and foremost women aren’t as ignorant as you may think. We know men don’t go to a bar or club to find their future wife. You’re there to have a good time with your friends and to find someone of the opposite sex to have fun with as well. And, truth be told, we’re there with the same motive.

Be realistic, women don’t often take men seriously at a nightclub. Like you, they’re seeking no-frills fun.  However, if you’re looking for something more than a casual hookup, considering asking for her phone number and call her in a few days at a suitable time. Has it been two weeks and you still haven’t called? Sorry buddy, lose her number. Chances are she won’t remember you.

Women are often more fascinated with men who travel with their guy pals rather than alone. A woman doesn’t want to spend her night babysitting a guy, we like to dance with our girlfriends and do our own thing at some points of the night. Bringing your friends around lets us know that you’re a guys guy. This way, our friends can mingle and party throughout the night.

A woman wants to be treated special; she wants to know that you’re interested in her and only her, at least for the time being. If you’re flirting with other women and giving them the same look, she’s going to lose interest. Women want a man that is selective, not someone who will show attention to anyone. And remember, other women include her friends. If you’re showing interest towards her friends it instantly creates a girl code, which screams back off. In short, flirting with her friends is not what a woman wants. It’s fine to be friendly towards other women, but veer away from being too friendly.

If a woman looks lost, propose to be of assistance. This will show that you’re not trying to be a creep. Rather, you essentially care about her safety. Women adore feeling safe. And if you want to know what a creeper is really like, read up here.

With oodles of drinking going on all the way through the night, women will travel in packs to the ladies room.  Offer to wait outside the door until she’s finished before you walk back to your party.

If you see that we’re running low on our drink, offer to fill our glass or buy us a cocktail. By filling a woman’s glass, you are showing her that you can take charge and know how to treat a woman. If we offer to pay, don’t let us. This is always somewhat puzzling to men. We offer for the reason that we know it’s polite, however if you let us pay it is an automatic strike.

If you get fortunate enough to end the night with the female of your choice, open the door for her when leaving the club or when getting into the car. Chivalry is not dead and never out of style.

Follow these straightforward guidelines and clubplanet can guarantee you’ll be giving women what they want.

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