Trino's Lounge, Sacramento

We have been to Trino's three time. Each time if you were NOT part of the click you did not fit in. I felt like I was in high school again. People would not talk to you even when you started the converation. The last and final time we were there we had been at a table for hours and were told to move that the table was reserved for a couple who just walked in EVEN though it did not say reserved and when we asked they said sorry it is reserved. If that was the only place or way we could connect with people in the lifestyle we would never be in the lifestyle.

I have been a few times, and every time I go, there is always a large crowd of "onlookers" as if to say we are all there for the meatmarket pickups. I like to mingle amungst the patrons, but I felt uncomfortable the entire time, boobs whiped out, older club goers looking down at you if you "apear" younger or not into the swinging scene. I have also noticed the same ole people there always. Plus, I hate dress codes, my man and I were turned away for wearing jeans, not the ghetto, ganster type, very nice and casual, but were turned away, so I called my friends from inside and they left too, we went where we were welcome..... but just MY observation.

Trino's was a pretty good time eventhough i've only been once. Me and a couple of my co-workers went there for me and another girls birthdays because we heard that it was a swinger bar and thought it would be fun.
They have an older crowd though and not the good kind of older crowd. The older crowd that looks down on you if you're not a member of the dusty bones guild. But the drinks were strong and cheap. And i took somebody home! LoL