If you like dressing up and dancing, then head to the clubs near or on Little West 12th Street - e.g. Kiss and Fly or Pink Elephant. These nightlife venues typically have a bad reputation for making its patrons wait in line, but that mess can be avoided by walking in with a promoter or signing up on a Clubplanet.com guest list. There are numbers of them lurking around social networking sites, just itching for more followers.
However, dance clubs aren’t the best way to meet guys. Firstly, clubs exert an unimaginable amount of effort into ensuring that the entrance ratio favors the female persuasion. Secondly, most men just like going to bars. If you're on a mission to meet eligible(ish) bachelors, and if you want to be somewhere where you can hear them, go to bars. Midtown (after working hours) is a great spot if you're looking for corporate types – try O Lunney’s or The Perfect Pint - and the East Village/Lower East Side if you're looking for cheap... drinks.